Wednesday, October 25, 2006
Serena's love & degree theory:

when u get together with a person
you may love her
like really strong feelings
that's the first degree, the most basic reason why u get together with a person
the second degree is when u start to see all the flaws, and you 2 have to find some way to work things out, but your feelings for the person is still there
slowly, it doesn't matter what the person can do for you, but the fact that he/she is in your life.
as compared to the first degree where you get together with the person because u enjoy being with the person, you want to gain something out of your 2 being together
the third degree, is when the person grows old, ugly, loses a leg or has some mental problem, but u still stay with the person. that already transcends love, or even obligation. there is no enjoyment, but because the 2 of u are each other's.

well talking to ser really perks me up and makes me put down more things in writing..
as we were talking.. i concluded theories are common sense written in a very chim and elaborate manner..
and obviously we talked and it lead to this gay movie she watched..
where one of them had aids and his partner left him..
questioning the play was whether even if the guy left him, does it really mean he didn't love his boyfriend anymore?

questions questions..

just because the person fails in loving u the way you want her to love, does it mean that she loved u any less?
by what standards do u judge? or how would u know?
u would be unhappy because she does not love u the way you want her to, because she cannot satisfy your personal desires
but most people would see it as that she does not love u enough..


"failing in love is not the same as not loving"

"quote frm ser"

derisory- at 5:46 AM